The Relationship Struggle

In most cases, especially in relationships, you will only get 80% of what you NEED and you will hardly get the other 20% that you WANT in your relationship. There is always another person (man or women) that you will meet and that will offer you the other 20% which is lacking in your relationship that you WANT. And believe me, 20% looks really good when you are not getting it at all in your current relationship.But the problem is that you will always be tempted to leave that good 80% that you know you have, thinking that you will get something better with the other 20% that you WANT. But as reality has proven, in most cases, you will always end up with having the 20% that you WANT and loosing the 80% that you really NEED and that you already had. Be careful in deciding between what you WANT and NEED in your life.

The moral of this story is: Be sure of what you NEED in your life from someone and not what you WANT. You’ll be happier.

How do you know what you NEED in your life from a relationship? You need to know yourself first AND then fully know the person you are considering to marry. This requires asking them the right questions, being patient, and allowing enough time to grow together as best friends. This is the only way you will ever have a chance at succeeding in having a happy, long and loving relationship.


One response to “The Relationship Struggle

  1. That’s really ture

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