“When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself.”
~ Wayne Dyer
If you want to know the real you, then write down all the remarks you have made when making judgments about someone. Whether you say something negative or positive, silently or out loud about someone, you are essentially looking at a mirror and telling yourself what kind of person you are. If you think about it, the real reason we judge others is so we can feel better about ourselves. Knocking others down builds us up but in a destructive manner. Start looking at people as if you’re looking at yourself in the mirror, then you’ll be sure and say nice things about them.